We arrived after our seventeen-hour bus ride into the city of Puerto Natales. It was the staging point for most hikes to Torres del Paine. It was still a two-hour bus ride to the national park from there but it was the biggest city by far near the park. From our friend, Nichola’s description the hike would be vigorous but rewarding. We were planning on renting equipment so we he could camp at night during the four-day hike that we organized for ourselves.
We were men and were going to conquer Patagonia. Why wouldn’t we camp? It was because we were men.
We went to the hostel that everyone mentions for hiking in Torres del Paine, the Erratic Rock. Two American’s who call Chile home now own it. They have developed a newspaper for the hiking and outdoor community in the region and their three hostels rent out all the equipment you need for hiking the famed ‘W Trail” of Torres del Paine. They actually hold seminars on how to hike the “W.” We decided we didn’t need the class.
We didn’t need any classes! It was because we were men. We were men and were going to conquer Patagonia.
They didn’t have room for us in the main hostel so the gave us a room in the annex. After the night in the annex, Patrick and I decided we were not going to shave until after the four-day hike.
Why would we shave? We were men and were going to conquer Patagonia. It was because we were men.
We went to rent equipment and the owner was the only one who was there and he told us to come about 30 minutes before we getting the bus to Torres del Paine to get our equipment. He didn’t want to disrupt the system his employees had but he guaranteed us the equipment we needed.
Why would we worry about the equipment? Everything works out in the end. It was because we were men.
We went and bought our food supplies for the four days. We planned for two meals a day. We were told there were refugio’s (cabins) along the way where they would serve warm meals and if you needed a room at night they would have cots for people. In worse case scenarios, you could rent tents and sleeping bags from them if the cots were all filled up.
We were ready to tackle Torres del Paine. Why? It was because we were men.
We got back to the hostel 45 minutes before our bus arrived to pick us up. The equipment manager told us the owner was mistaken and that they didn’t have the things we needed but if we wanted to stay in town for the night they would be getting all the things we needed to be able to hike tomorrow. If we stayed in town for the extra night, we wouldn’t be able to complete the whole “W” because we would have to leave early to get our flight to Buenos Aires.
Screw it. We don’t need equipment, we can rent sleeping bags and tents from the refugios and we would only eat staples that don’t need to be cooked.
Why? We were flexible and could flow with the punches. It was because we were men.
We stored non-essential items at the hostel but our packs still weighed 30 pounds. We took the bus into the National Park where Torres del Paine was located. We would be hiking with these packs for all four days.
The 30- pound packs were not going to be a problem. Why? It was because we were men.
We got to the park entrance and paid our fee. From the entrance, the park had a shuttle that would take us to the refugio. It was only seven kilometers. Since we didn’t have equipment we decided we would stay at the refugio for the first night and go hiking from there. We were on the late afternoon bus so everyone except one couple took the shuttle to refugio. We decided we would join the couple and hike the first seven kilometers into our first stop. It was a very easy hike and almost embarrassing that we considered taking the shuttle.
Why did we hike in when the shuttle was available? Why? It was because we were men.
We got to the refugio in no time flat. It wasn’t this rustic cabin with cots as we were led to believe. It was as nice as a Hampton Inn. There were no cots- there were beds with “heavenly mattresses”. OK maybe not “heavenly mattresses” but close enough! This is not where men stayed. For crying out loud you could get a mud massage at this place. We didn’t have any other choice so we stayed in our not so manly rooms with nice amenities and hot showers.
As we planed our first leg of the “W” we met a Swiss guy who recommended that we try to do the first two days in one and take it easy for the rest. “If you are in shape, it should be nor problem,” he told us. We decided after the easy hike and staying in the “Hilton” refugio, we needed something that was a challenge.
Why wouldn’t we do a day and a half hike in one day? How hard could this? We had just run on Antarctica! No problem. Why? It was because we were men!
We woke up in the morning and started our hike around 9 am. About four hours later we made it made it to the top of first part of the “W” in order to see the towers. Luckily, the clouds cooperated and we got a pretty good view of the towers.
After a lunch on top, we made our way down. We needed to make it to the next refugio around 7 pm in time for dinner.
We had five hours. This should be no problem. Why? It is because we are men.
The last part of the hike was harder than either of us thought. The 30-pound packs were weighing us down. The hikes up in elevation were stressful. At one point, I was sure that we would be able to see the site over the next hill but the next marker said we were still 2 hours away. I was devastated and I looked at Patrick. We didn’t say anything but we were both surprised about how much time we still had left. We had both underestimated the trail.
We didn’t say anything nor complain. Why? It was because we were men.
My trick when things get rough or difficult is I always think of others who have had it worse. It usually gives me the strength I need to keep going. I use this technique in all parts of my life. I don’t have time to ever worry or feel sorry for myself.
I kept reminding myself no matter how tired I was that this was not anything compared to how other people have felt. At first I thought of my friend, Lesley, who is training for an Iron Man. I mean that is exhausting. After a while, I started thinking of the mountain climber, Ed Visterous. He climbed 14 of the world’s tallest mountain peaks without oxygen. That is exhausting. The last 30 minutes I needed to think of Captain Scott and his men from the expedition to Antarctica in 1911. These guys man-hauled over two hundred pounds each over hundreds of miles in all conditions and elevations. I was not tired those guys were tired. They were dead as well but you get the point.
At one point we got to where a normally small creek was the next obstacle. There were a group of three hikers-two men and one woman trying to figure out how to get over it. The creek had risen dramatically and covered most of the rocks most climbers would use to walk over. Patrick decided there was only one route and that was walking in calf deep water vs. risking slipping on the rocks and sliding down the sleep slope. The two other guys followed his lead but the woman was too afraid of walking over. Neither guy (and one was her boyfriend) would go back to help her so Patrick took it upon himself to go back in the freezing cold water to help her across.
Why would Patrick help the girl when her own boyfriend wouldn’t? Why? It is because he is a man.
It took me a while but I got over with out any help but my feet were frozen as well. But we didn’t complain. Why? It was because we were men!
We eventually made it to the refugio a little after 9 pm. We were in front of two women who were coming from the other direction. They to were tired and looked like that had a long day like we did. We got inside and I let Patrick deal with the reception. He was going to get a room vs. a tent because we deserved a room after the twelve hours of strong hiking. Also, it had started to rain as we arrived to the refugio.
We deserved a room. Why? It was because we were men and had hiked 26 kilometers over 12 hours of rugged terrain.
One of the women sat down next to me. We started to exchange our stories on the day. I could tell she was tired. She was a pretty woman from New York but her hair was matted down from being in a hat all day. She had a natural beauty and she had piercing blue eyes. They mesmerized me. I continued on with our heroic tales of our 26-kilometer hike and then she began to smile. It was a sly smile and her eyes were trying to tell me something. They were the types of eyes that could tell you a whole story before she even spoke a word.
What was she trying to tell me? I couldn’t tell. Was she flirting with me? I am too tired.
But then after I was done with our story, she began to tell us their tale and she slowly mentioned that they had just finished a 28-kilometer hike over 12 hours. Two more kilometers than us! Her smile broadened and her eyes kept focus on mine.
I couldn’t look at her eyes anymore. I now knew what her eyes were trying to tell me all along. It was a simple story.
Why would you hike 28 kilometers in one day? Why? It was because they were women.